The Highlands

Ah, time for reminiscing. Another episode of of “What Happened to Me” shall start again! Cue the facepalm(s).

So this time, Little Ol’ Me was on the way to the Scottish Highlands by herself on a tour early last year. It is rather odd to be the only one in a group of twenty or thirty and stand on the side, watching everyone in pairs and small groups. But this was an exciting day, full of adventure and mountains!

It did start with a ton of snow and slippery roads in the morning, but we got to Loch Lomond and Glencoe in a whirl. So going north a bit, we arrived at Loch Ness in a rollercoaster of narrow and bumpy roads. At this time, it was around 2(?)ish in the afternoon and we were shown around the area, then left to be free for a couple of hours.

Funfunfun. We get back to the bus and suddenly our driver gives us this weird noise through the mic and says that we might have to stand by for little while because our bus wouldn’t start.

? ? ?

There were two groups of college kids that were on vacation who had to be back in Edinburgh by the next day and a lady (not the most organized) had a flight out of the city at night. So Panic spreads in the bus and people are making phone calls like crazy, the mother in front of me is growing with concern that she’s jittery, and I am in the back on my phone.

In around a half hour, we were notified that there was a mechanic coming down from the other side of town and he very quickly figured out what was wrong (apparently some of the batteries melted some part of the system under a panel in the bus…or maybe the batteries itself?)

I am totally downplaying this because it was really chaotic and our driver was slightly freaking out over prepping to make night reservations (just in case). But would you ever expect that the bus for a day trip to suddenly break down?

Also to add, in the earlier part of the day, parked on a cliff side (remember: mountains), the bus was starting to get faulty because it was shut off, but started to move on it’s own with me, another lady, and the driver. Imagine this in your head: a group of tourists taking pictures of mountains and their bus behind them starts rolling away in circles.

Ah, solo travel. What an experience. It all sounds really stressful, but I knew myself that I would be back safe and sound. Also, I get this story out of it. I still recommend to go and try travelling by yourself because you learn a lot more about your attitudes and behaviors in a new environment.

Until next time!

Solo Travel

Im the idiot that got lost on a group tour. Yup. That scary fleeting thought that crosses your mind when you step onto a tour bus is now ingrained into my memory forever. It wasn’t in Paris (thank god) but I still went on tours there. (I am still very scarred.)

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Traveling solo is an extremely scary thing to do if you have never left your own country or like to move in groups with friends. The first time I left, I went to Scotland because they also spoke English and it was close by. Low risk, small city, walk-able as well. I had everything researched and got my trusty portable charger.

Boy, was I in for a party.

I got lost so many times, texted my friend “it’s so damn windy” everyday, and had to walk in snowy streets. Europe apparently doesn’t have shovels.

This trip did teach me a lot of life lessons and let me think through what my life was/is like. For example, many people find it uncomfortable talking to strangers and will absolutely never ask for directions. There are others who hate eating out alone because it seems like others are staring or you’re taking up space at a busy restaurant. Others straight up don’t like walking out alone because they can’t be alone; they need a companion to feel stable. These are all reasonable and I understand why people feel uncomfortable. I have also done all of these things and way more embarrassing things while traveling.

I’ve realised with traveling that there is no way to combat fear except for facing it on. Fear of traveling solo? Buy that ticket and drop yourself onto another continent. You can only think, “well, I’m here now, might as well make the most of it.” As long as you take one step at a time, think with an open mind, and slow down your pace, it will all work out.

So to finish this up, I’ll tell you about that time I got lost. I was in Cotswold that day and it was really nice (which mean the weather was cooperating). I was on the way to Oxford and was handed a self-walking tour which was around 1.5-2 hours long. So here I go, sun shining, adrenaline high, and hopping off the bus. Speed up to an hour and fifteen minutes, I am in the open market and I’m buying a few things before I run back to the meet-up point. I somehow turn one wrong corner and I am so screwed. Everything suddenly looked the same and there was no campus map. So I run into numerous cafes, get right up into strangers’ faces (and one very nice professor), and somehow find the museum where I saw no bus. No bus. It’s 4:45 and I totally missed it. Well. I waited around a while and then decided, hell I’m going to the train station. And all this stress in a place that I had BEEN TO BEFORE. -facepalm-

And mind you, I had no wifi and had only 2G on my phone. So I buy that £27 ticket back to Piccadilly. It was an hour ride and halfway through, I get attacked with messages and to find out that my tour leader was calling me and leaving messages of “HI, WHERE ARE YOU?” and then I realized, “oh shit.” I had actually gotten the meet-up time wrong. Whoops.

I did get back safe and sound and I have a very entertaining story to tell. You’re welcome. The point of this story is that while things do go wrong, don’t be stressed or panicking. It’ll remain a great memory and train you to be better prepared in the future. Also, you you an awesome ice-breaker.

Have a wonderful day!